Bondage manual – Tantric Bondage.

Maybe many of the „dominants“ won´t be caring of such a thing, like is quality of the „submissive´s“ orgasm. But I can assure you, it is interesting as well as incediary and your dominancy won´t be disadvantaged. Give your submissive extended orgasm. The connection of tantra and bondage is not that senseless as it seems. Bondage is not a few minute stuff as it happens in vanilla sex(a term for normal sex). Playing with ropes lasts even few hours. The feeling of being powerless, trance, trust and abandon of the submissive makes a permise for using tantric practics during bondaging.
At first, tantra is a mystic way. This is true, but why shouldn´t we use some of its twists and enjoy a quality sex. Let´s leave dogmas of various tantric ways behind, leave tantric training as well. We´ll skip over breathe and energy exercises, we´ll talk about that in other article.

Extenden orgasm means extraordinary enhencing of lust and enables you to stay sexually active much longer. Some tantric text speak about examples of women´s orgasmsm, which last at least 10 minutes and longer, this all as one sustained orgasm. I haven´t seen all this on my own, therefore 2-3 minutes are evincible.

Now to the main body of tantric bondage. We bind submissive into frogtie style, this makes it possible to get between her legs very easily. Don´t make the bind too firm, you have to take into account that the submissive will be bound longer time, let her stay comfortable. Tying eyes can deepen the feeling of being abandon but some women prefer to take control of what´s going to happen, so let it this way. It´s good to seal up her mouth with binder so the submissive has to breathe through the nose and before orgasm she will be holding back her breath, which is a benefit for tantric bondaging. I take into account that you know your submissive well and you´re not doing this for the first time, because nothing should interfere your bondage ritual. Another thing we have to know is, what kind of orgasm the submissive has. It would be useless to ride in her vagina an hour with a dildo, when she has only „clitoral“ orgasm. Even if she has „vaginal“ orgasm, leave your amazing cock in your pants. Dildo is more approving because all this takes long. Before that we have to settle a sign that the submissive gives you right before her orgasm. It can be a verbal sign – if her mouth isn´t sealed up or a movement of a limb, better to say movement of a part of limb which is not bound firmly. As you notice this sign, you have to stop erotic excitation of clit or vagina immediately.

So now the submissive is bound and awaits your erotic excitation impatiently. If you have some usual ritual which you always do (like some spanking, hot wax, little torchure of nipples or other cute things), carry it out without worry. You just mustn´t reach the orgasm of your partner. Everything that thrills is allowed, but it is not the right time for the orgasm yet. By the time the submissive is accurately horny, which you will find out for sure(wet juice of lust below her botty), use the practics which leads her to the orgasm. Once she gives you the sign, that she is about to come, stop immediately. Now she will try to calm down by breathing deeply and slowly.

If she is not able to manage it, it means that she gave you the settled sign too early or too late and the orgasm has already come. It´s just up to you how you will punish her. Next time she will be more attentive. If your partner is usualy able to experience more orgasms one after another, you can carry on thrilling. You do this so long unless you reach 8 imperfect orgasms and at the 9th time you let her to come passionately. There´s nothing more wonderful than seeing a body convulsing in a huge orgasm bounded with ropes. Now you are the boss and you control when and how intensive orgasm your submissive experiences.