Train your submissive to become a sex machina.

Put your penis in and your submissive will lead you to an orgasm without moving her pelvic. This is a secret of emperor concubines which have been happifying the emperor. Exercising with jade egg. This excercise is done by women who know taoism, used for developing the vaginal muscles and the whole area. This increases the Ching chi and stamina but also the control over your penis. They are able to move the jade egg inside the vagina using vaginal muscles. Just try to imagine what this can make with your penis…

Practical excercise for women:

The egg de facto enables you to feel and control contractions in three specific places. In old times jade eggs were used. Modern times have brought us these special love balls sold in sex shops. For these excercises we´ll use balls in a shape of an egg. Lubricant will be useful as well.

There are three important parts of muscles in the vagina which need to be limberd:

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  First is the entrance of vulva.
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  Second is the middle of vagina, between first and third part.
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  And third is right below the cervix of uterus, close to uterus.

The excercise is done in crouche position or in standing position with straddled legs. Put the narrower part of egg right in behalf of the entrance of vulva. Let the twine dangle from the vagina. Now try to press the muscles in the vulva area, the egg should move inside. You can also help it with constricting perineum. If it doesn´t work, pull the twine out unless you feel the egg going against the resistance of the vulva entrance. At that time constrict the muscles again and loosen the twine, the egg goes back into the vagina. If excercising this frequently you´ll be able to move the egg inside more and more. You can retain the twine lightly during doing excercise to increase the resistance against vaginal muscles.
When you do this often, you´ll be able to feel even muscles of the middle vagina and musles at the end of vagina. This takes long for some women, but with practising it fairly you will get ability to handle muscles of the other parts of vagina for sure. Once this turns up, carry on excercising the contractions of those three parts.

Contractions of three parts of the vagina:

Put the egg in and begin to move it with inside contractions so that it goes back and forth in each of this parts. Succession of contractions is following:
Press muscles of the vulva entrance to pull the egg in.
Then press the muscle below cervix of uterus in third part. This pushes the egg back in the middle part of vagina. At this time two parts of the vagina are contracted – in front of and behind the egg.
Then begin to contract the middle part gradually to constrict the egg. At the same time gradually increase the pressure so that the egg can move inside back and forth according to your wish. You should grater the speed of its movement according to you progress. You do this excercise so long unless you feel a need to rest.

After managing the last point of excercise you can use this sexual technique to please your partner´s or dominant´s penis. This vaginal massage of penis is a great forepleasure for both, especially in the „cowgirl“ sex position.

How is the SM porn shot.

I have had an opportunity to take a part in shooting a porn movie with spanking as a technical assistent. A friend of mine has asked me, weather I could help him with shooting a porn movie. After finding out that I wouldn´t be the actor and that it´s all going to be about spanking, I couldn´t refuse. I have had absolutely no idea what´s going to happen, but curiosity is curiosity. The other day afternoon I arrived to the location, which was a leased empty stock. My welcome and meeting people there was very fast because when I came the shootíng had been already under way. The producer, cameraman and the main male actor in one person was an english speaking foreigner Mr. P. The friend of mine was there as a sound engineer, the pornstar lady S. – very pretty and young, was already naked and strapped to a rood. I got two controllers into my hands with an instruction to push the buttons leading to smokemaker when I hear the command SMOKE. So I became a professional smokemaker for a reward 80CZK/hour.

Then I heard the command smoke. I let out the smoke and was waiting, what´s going to happen. Nothing special happened, they were just setting the lights and controlling the preexposure of the scene on the online connected display. Finally, everything was ok. The camera was on the support, Mr. P was ready in a black leather coat with a 3 meters long, but thin whip in his hand. Few whips into the air and after that whips stroke also on the body of lady S. Even that the energetically guided whipping looked threateningly and the pornstar was wincing with pain after each hit, in fact only minimum of whips stroke on her body. Everything was professionally led by Mr. P´s hand so that the end of the whip strike near by the body. In all bordom, couple changes in the camera settings, some few shoots.

Then it was a break and lady S. refreshed herself with water and snifter. Her body was covered with baby oil and wet after using water sprayer. Her nipples were sticking up and I had the first opportunity to get a proper load of her. I must admit she was a very pretty. Mr. P. took a short leather multisprout whip instead of the long one. After necessary light and camera settings I let out the smoke and awaited what will happen. Mr. P was whirling with the whip in the air and the ends stroke very lightly on lady´s breast. I had to let out the smoke regularly to establish dreamlike feeling. This scene looked really nice, her body was shiny and the water drops were glittering in the light. The young lady was still performing excitement, fear and pain. All that she completed with groans and whishing when the leather sprouts stroke on her skin.

After that the way of tortment changed into classical whipping over breast, belly, thighs. But it´s been easy to see that the strokes were only pretended. However, in couple moments when the whippes stroke on her nipples I could see that something has changed. The pornstar´s breath became to be fitful, groans more real and Mr. P, who was professionally perceiving the up coming situation, whipped harder. The strokes have been already real. At last I could hear leather stroking on the skin and the body was covering with drops of sweat. After each single whip wonderful red bloody signs. They both didn´t have to perform anymore. They were in a trance. The whipping, mumur of pain and their lust intensified into a orgasm. The lady has screamed out with lust and just hang on her bind hands. Tears gushed on her face and she sobbed, it´s been easy to see how happy she is. Me and my friend repayed with clapping.

After shooting I got to know, that she wasn´t a pornstar but a stripper and she got this job by chance. She´s done it also for money, but mostly for joy. I do believe her after experiencing another shootings. I have never seen again such a special and incendiaring feeling. I was at a SM porn shooting three more times. There always were professional porn actors and a complete shooting crew. These porn actors haven´t had experience with SM porn or relation to spanning subject. I´ve found one couple really goofy. She was supposed to have little toggles connected with a chanilet on her nipples as the „submissive“. Even that the toggles were holding there really barely and were still falling off from her nipples during the whole shooting, she kept yelling after couple minutes that it hurts. But that was really nothing against that, when the inexperienced partner hit her body with the whip. No big stroke but hysteric yell and swearing at the partner repeated at least five more times. Each time the director and the shooting crew waited patiently until she calms down. Genuine boredom, stodgy and not incendiary for no one.

Nevertheless, one funny thing has still happened. The plot should have been like this. He was supposed to put a raw egg into the submissive´s vagina and she to push it out after a while as she was bound and bent over a bar chair. That time they used boiled egg and put it inside. At the time, when she was pushing the egg out, the shell cracked because of the contractions of vaginal muscles. It took her over an hour to get it out piece by piece. And I don´t mention the pieces of shell. Fortunately, everything fell out well, mostly because of the amount of gel that was used before putting it in. That time nobody found it funny but nowadays I find it humorous.

Perhaps I should mention, that woman gets a reward for this about 400 – 600 Euro. Men get about 3000CZK. It has never ended with coitus. The shootings in Czech republic are relatively common. The reasons are simple – low expenses and pretty actresses. I´ve been pleasantly surprised by the empathy and professionality of Mr. P and his crew. Porn actors have told me that this is not common approach. Well, maybe it´s because SM is being shot in a different way.
And what I´ve learnt about porn? The most important are the good actors. Only the ones, who really enjoy it, can become a pornstar.

Bondage manual – Tantric Bondage.

Maybe many of the „dominants“ won´t be caring of such a thing, like is quality of the „submissive´s“ orgasm. But I can assure you, it is interesting as well as incediary and your dominancy won´t be disadvantaged. Give your submissive extended orgasm. The connection of tantra and bondage is not that senseless as it seems. Bondage is not a few minute stuff as it happens in vanilla sex(a term for normal sex). Playing with ropes lasts even few hours. The feeling of being powerless, trance, trust and abandon of the submissive makes a permise for using tantric practics during bondaging.
At first, tantra is a mystic way. This is true, but why shouldn´t we use some of its twists and enjoy a quality sex. Let´s leave dogmas of various tantric ways behind, leave tantric training as well. We´ll skip over breathe and energy exercises, we´ll talk about that in other article.

Extenden orgasm means extraordinary enhencing of lust and enables you to stay sexually active much longer. Some tantric text speak about examples of women´s orgasmsm, which last at least 10 minutes and longer, this all as one sustained orgasm. I haven´t seen all this on my own, therefore 2-3 minutes are evincible.

Now to the main body of tantric bondage. We bind submissive into frogtie style, this makes it possible to get between her legs very easily. Don´t make the bind too firm, you have to take into account that the submissive will be bound longer time, let her stay comfortable. Tying eyes can deepen the feeling of being abandon but some women prefer to take control of what´s going to happen, so let it this way. It´s good to seal up her mouth with binder so the submissive has to breathe through the nose and before orgasm she will be holding back her breath, which is a benefit for tantric bondaging. I take into account that you know your submissive well and you´re not doing this for the first time, because nothing should interfere your bondage ritual. Another thing we have to know is, what kind of orgasm the submissive has. It would be useless to ride in her vagina an hour with a dildo, when she has only „clitoral“ orgasm. Even if she has „vaginal“ orgasm, leave your amazing cock in your pants. Dildo is more approving because all this takes long. Before that we have to settle a sign that the submissive gives you right before her orgasm. It can be a verbal sign – if her mouth isn´t sealed up or a movement of a limb, better to say movement of a part of limb which is not bound firmly. As you notice this sign, you have to stop erotic excitation of clit or vagina immediately.

So now the submissive is bound and awaits your erotic excitation impatiently. If you have some usual ritual which you always do (like some spanking, hot wax, little torchure of nipples or other cute things), carry it out without worry. You just mustn´t reach the orgasm of your partner. Everything that thrills is allowed, but it is not the right time for the orgasm yet. By the time the submissive is accurately horny, which you will find out for sure(wet juice of lust below her botty), use the practics which leads her to the orgasm. Once she gives you the sign, that she is about to come, stop immediately. Now she will try to calm down by breathing deeply and slowly.

If she is not able to manage it, it means that she gave you the settled sign too early or too late and the orgasm has already come. It´s just up to you how you will punish her. Next time she will be more attentive. If your partner is usualy able to experience more orgasms one after another, you can carry on thrilling. You do this so long unless you reach 8 imperfect orgasms and at the 9th time you let her to come passionately. There´s nothing more wonderful than seeing a body convulsing in a huge orgasm bounded with ropes. Now you are the boss and you control when and how intensive orgasm your submissive experiences.